I'm going to give her the opportunity to take advantage of being with me. You have power, she has power Characterized by "I like myself and believe that I'm a great choice for her, and I think that she's a desirable woman. I have to figure out how to get her attention and impress her." These are the kinds of thoughts of most guys who I come into contact with. I really like this girl, but I don't think she likes me. You have no power, she has the power Characterized by "I don't know what to do. This is the situation when a guy thinks for whatever reason that he's not valuable as a person, and that no woman COULD want him. You have no power, she has no power This is the attitude characterized by guys saying "You probably won't like me, and there's nothing that either of us can do about it." When people have very low self esteem, combined with learned helplessness they often use these kinds of words. Here's one way I generalize male/female relationships. In that book, he talks about the concept of personal power, and how most people give away their power to others. Welcome To The Double Your Dating Special Holiday Report - Enjoy! POWER AND RELATIONSHIPS One of my favorite books is Gerry Spence's book "How To Argue And Win Every Time" (I've listened to the audio tape version many, many times as well, and recommend it highly).
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